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They say the “devil is in the details,” but the other night, my friend and I were scanning the bar and noticing minor things about women. After reflecting on our observations, I put together four small things that guys notice that they don’t often point out to women. Here they are:

Hands

I study a girl’s hands pretty intensely. Beautiful hands can portray daintiness and strength at the same time. I notice manicures, and complexion. I imagine what it’s like to hold them. I’m not much of a hand holder, but pretty hands will turn me into a hand holder. I even watch how a girl grips things. There are definitely different objects and shapes that look amazing in a girl’s hands, such as a wine glass. A wine glass has delicate curves that play off a woman’s hands. When I notice fingers that are appealing tome, I imagine how those fingertips would feel.

Hair

Hair can do simple actions that can evoke powerful emotions. One day I ran into my friend on the way to work-the friend that wore high heels to the soccer game. One thing’s for sure: this girl really knows how to take care of and do her hair. We were just talking and walking when a gust of wind blew right down the street and ran through her hair. The indescribable motion that took place in her hair was beautiful. I even noticed that a random guy we passed turned his head and looked. I didn’t realize until the day was over, but seeing that gust of wind go through my friend’s hair put me in a good mood the rest of the day. So, while hair is a big deal, little random moments can create big, great things.

Attitude Towards Others

When I go out to dinner with a girl, I keep a close eye on how she treats a waiter or hostess. Does she say “thanks,” and generally act polite and respectful? Sometimes I feel as if I’m overly cordial to people: I wish them a nice day and always make sure to say “thanks.” But, what makes a woman has to do with more than just how she treats me. A person with a beautiful personality treats everyone nicely and respectfully. It’s fun to be out with a girl and watch her make people smile from afar. It makes me feel proud and lucky that I’m with her. It’s already an amazing thing when I meet a girl that can brighten my days. But if this girl brightens everyone’s days, then I’m even luckier.

What Does She Notice?

It’s fun meeting different people because they always bring a new perspective. When I break down music I love for people, they ask how I even care about every last little sound and note that I analyze and point out to them. What little things does a woman notice or point out? If we go to a Broadway show, for example,does she notice something in the background set? Does she notice the couple in front of us that are very much in love? Does she notice that the usher hates us because we are whispering and showed up just as the lights were going down? Sure, we share big thoughts and ideas with one another, but sometimes you can learn a lot about a person just by the details they notice in life and moments. It is a fun adventure going out with someone who can laugh at and notice little things, and who always brings new insights to different situations.

Once I realized that I was noticing little things, I came to the conclusion that little simple moments are just part of overall beauty. Beauty can be defined in a collection of moments, or memories more often than it can be defined by someone’s appearance.

Seeing a girl across the room, holding a wine glass with pretty hands and making people smile,or a moment in the morning where the wind runs through a girl’s hair, or a girl I’m noticing someone walking by in a Members Only jacket, are simple moments that should never be taken for granted.

So What is a little thing (appearance, moment or personality)that you notice in a guy that is a simple, beautiful thing?

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I’m not a fan of girls who have a ton of guy friends. I know a lot of girls say that other girls are catty and stuff like that…but it’s really annoying when you have to compete with a bunch of other dudes…especially when you know half of them are just waiting for the right moment to make a move. A couple or even a few is cool, but anything more than that is a complete turn off.

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Was dating a great in every way man for 10 months then there were things that made me go hmmm….. Find out he had been lying about some things about his family and past. Not earth shattering lies but still lies and then more lies about things and I knew it would just continue. We broke up when I confronted him and I never got an explanation for the lies. So, WHY DO MEN LIE?

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Dating 101: The Truth About Why Men Cheat

Counselor M. Gary Neuman surveyed 200 cheating and noncheating husbands to get at the real reasons behind men’s infidelity.

48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated.

So much for the myth that for men, cheating is all about physical intimacy: Only 8 percent of men said that physical dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. “Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is to have physical intimacy with someone,” Neuman says. “But men are emotionally driven beings too. They want their wives to show them that they’re appreciated, and they want women to understand how hard they’re trying to get things right.” The problem is that men are less likely than women to express these feelings, so you won’t always know when your guy is in need of a little affirmation. “Most men consider it unmanly to ask for a pat on the back, which is why their emotional needs are often overlooked,” Neuman says. “But you can create a marital culture of appreciation and thoughtfulness — and once you set the tone, he’s likely to match it.”

66% of cheating men report feeling guilt during the affair.

The implications are a little scary: It isn’t just uncaring jerks who cheat. In fact, 68 percent of cheaters never dreamed they’d be unfaithful… Read More…

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So one of the most discussed topics when it comes to understanding sex as it relates to men, is the difference between man and other mammals. For the most part it seems to be our abstract ability for reasoning and ration based judgement that makes us different. ie. We think about stuff with a certain flow of logic based on our intellilect.

And as such, it seems like we live in a time where more than ever Humans are celebrating their advancements in that technology and intelligence. So one could say that we live in a highly cerebral time.

So let’s just think about that for a second and take a look at the definition of the word “Cerebral.”

Cerebral: Describes an angle of thinking that utilizes the intellect rather than intuition or instinct.

See Wikipedia defition here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cerebral

That brings us to our next point. It has been often said that when it comes to sex “men think with the little head.” Maybe it’s even more simple than that… Read More…

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So you met a cute guy out somewhere and he asked for your number or you exchanged numbers or what have you…and he never even called. Did he…

a) lose your number
b) have a girlfriend
c) is really gay but moonlighting as a heterosexual guy (I’ve actually seen this happen)
d) was really just a player who gets off on getting girls numbers with no intention of ever calling or
e) some other reason.

Before we even get any deeper into this article…the fact of the matter is, he DIDN’T call. Who cares why? You certainly shouldn’t. Save yourself some brain cells and just chalk it up as another “what if” and move on.

BUT…if you must…let’s explore some possibilities of why this could’ve happened.

For this article, let’s just use the obvious situation…I don’t know, maybe you were at a bar or some other place where alcohol was involved? It happens. Maybe he was a little tipsy…… Read More…

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